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Irene Fellin, NATO’s Special Representative for Women, Peace, and Security, recently enriched the KinArmat Talks with her profound insights on the evolving roles of women in the world of security and defense.
Irene Fellin’s Journey
Initially aspiring to work in the cultural sector, Irene's life journey and specific choices led her into the heart of security, ultimately to NATO. Conscious of the obstacles women often encounter, especially in societies that downplay women's professional success, Irene embarked on a mission to "rethink the role of women" based on her own experiences and perspectives. During the discussion, Irene also shared her personal values, those that drive her forward and aid her in her work. She emphasized the importance of remaining true to one's values, regardless of circumstances or environment.
5 Key Takeaways
1. Don’t apologize for who you are and what you do.
Women apologize too often and unnecessarily. Irene Fellin champions the power of authenticity in traditionally male-dominated fields like security and defense. Her call to embrace one's identity underscores the importance of genuine self-representation in achieving professional success.
Try this: Instead of saying “I’m sorry for being late” say “Thank you for your patience.”
2. Dare to act and to be yourself
Irene's determination is contagious, encouraging us to overcome our fears and dare to be ourselves. To dare to act, question, and discover our true selves in a society that doesn't always embrace our authentic selves and individual aspirations. In her illustrious career, Irene openly discussed the obstacles she encountered, how her life and professional path unfolded, and her own definition of success.
3. Female perspective in conflict resolution is crucial for safer futures
Holding a pivotal role within NATO, she aims to "humanize security," especially during conflicts by incorporating a feminine perspective. This approach highlights the differing impacts of conflicts on women and men, emphasizing the critical role of women in conflict resolution. It underscores the importance of placing this vital role on NATO's agenda and adopting a more gender-inclusive approach to conflicts.
4. Challenging stereotypes and making space at the table
She highlighted ongoing challenges within environments that traditionally view women through a lens of victimization, advocating for stronger initiatives to challenge this perception. Her efforts aim to ensure women are not only participants but active contributors in shaping security policies.
5. Embrace your femininity in a male-dominated world
In a male-dominated field like NATO, Irene remains steadfast in embracing her identity and femininity, advocating for personal integrity alongside professional duties. She emphasizes the importance of balancing demanding roles with maintaining a private, authentic space that honors her personal life and values. Simultaneously, she challenges the norms within the traditionally male-dominated security sector by refusing to conform to typical gender expectations, preserving her distinct personality and femininity, thereby advocating for more inclusive and diverse representation in security discussions and leadership roles.
This was a passionate, meaningful, and hopeful discussion that interweaved Irene's personal history and professional life. It serves as a guide for present and future generations, helping them make better choices, build confidence, and stay true to themselves!
Join us at the next KinArmat Talks to further explore these insights, meet thought leaders, and expand your own perspectives. Share what you learn to inspire others and grow our community. Be a part of the conversation that shapes our future.
